You Adapt To The Culture, The Culture Doesn't Adapt To You

Living in a foreign country can be incredibly exciting, as it gives you a great opportunity to fully immerse yourself in a different way of life. Make sure to really get into the local culture to make the most of your experience. If you don't, you might end up having some issues with your neighbors and the community, which could make your time abroad less enjoyable.

So many times in our adventures, we've seen expats complaining about the culture of the country they're now a part of. In Switzerland, for example, one woman was angrily posting on an expat forum that she was tired of her neighbors complaining about her mowing her lawn on Sundays. The Swiss take the Sunday silence very seriously, and it is a core part of their culture. By continuously ignoring those norms, this woman was making it clear that she had zero intention of adapting to local ways.

It's important that you research the culture of any country that you're considering for relocation, because it's something that has a huge influence on your quality of life. It's also important that you expand your research beyond the expat forums. While they are very helpful, they often present a skewed version of local culture, as they are seen through the eyes of other expats. Read culture websites, check for any books related to living and working in the country you're considering, and look for articles by relocation companies. Really think about what matters most to you, and also reflect on what you can and cannot live with. Remember, while you spend a good portion of your day at work, you also have to consider all the hours you aren't at work. Make sure that the social and recreational cultures are a fit for what matters to you.

Changing your behavior can be tough, especially if the new country you're in is way different from what you're used to. If you don't try, you'll just stick out and show you're not keen on blending in with the community you've picked. So, when you move to a new place, do some homework on the culture beforehand. Look into things like how people talk, personal space boundaries, and how they greet each other. It's important to know what matters most to the culture and what's a big no-no. The Culture Crossing Guide is a good starting point for tips and advice.

By embracing the customs, traditions, and values of the host country, we not only show respect to the local community but also gain a deeper understanding of the world around us. From trying new foods to learning the language, every effort to integrate into the local culture can lead to meaningful connections and enriching experiences.

So, whether you're studying, working, or simply exploring a new country, remember that embracing the local culture is key to making the most of your time abroad. It's not just about adapting to a new environment, but also about broadening your horizons and growing as an individual.